Thank you each for sharing your perspective on the article.  I would like to approach this from a different perspective.  First, I appreciated the article and much like what you each shared it offered some basic tools and approaches to work with children. However, as I read it I was thinking if this would work with children who experience complex and traumatic, (not sure if that is the correct terminology) grief.  Such as the grief of associated with loosing a parent to incarceration, or extreme violence, the loss of one self as a result of sexual assault.  I feel as if this is what i am faced with, and while the simple is a good place to start, I don’t know if it can always work or if it is where I can leave these children.  I would enjoy your feedback.